Feeling inspired

I'm feeling quite inspired to write... To write a book.. Ok not a book, but I do plan to write a how-to about relationships in some attempt to help my friends and anyone avoid the mistakes I've made myself and to help them find the love of their life... I know.. this is reall mushy stuff for me.... But like I said I'm feeling inspired and feel like I've learned a lot about this topic over the last couple of years. The reasons are two fold. One to help others and two to help me see myself and focus on myself so I can accomplish what I want to in life. Ok maybe three fold.. Third being to expand myself and to help myself become a relationship expert so to speak. :P

So the first chapter is going to be about knowing what you want and knowing that you can get it. You have to think about the ideal qualities in a girl that you are looking for. I've found it best to think of people you've gotten along with really well and had a great connection and or chemistry with.. Of course if you've had a great relationship with someone but things didn't work out, try to understand why and look to see if you can improve something about yourself like communication.. Many times communication is a big problem, even if it seems you are both speaking the same language you may really not be. Men speak one language and women speak another. This is a large challenge that I will cover later. Another big problem is just simply not getting that life isn't always rosy and when things get tough you have to support each other. These are just a couple of examples of potential improvement points.

Try to imagine what this ideal person will be looking for in a mate. Can you be this person without having to put on a charade? If not you probably need to re-evaluate your ideal mate. If you can, try to make yourself as interesting and intriguing as possible.

Yikes.. It's late now.. More on this later. I can see this is going to be a challenge to write after all.. So many variables for different situations..